3 Keys To Your Evolution

Yes, it’s true. I’m 37 this week!

I want to talk to you about evolution today. What does evolution really mean to us as women?

There’s a huge difference between evolving and achieving. I hear from so many women, “Gosh, why am I not where I want to be yet? Why haven’t I achieved everything I want yet?”

Yes, I’ve been in that space. And I want to share with you: I am DONE with achieving.

I want to invite you into this evolution with me. It’s not about achieving anymore. It’s about evolving. When we shift our energy away from achieving and move into our evolution, we get really clear that we are constantly moving forward. We stop fearing move back.

When this happens, so much can open up for you.

Here are 3 key ways to know that you are evolving and becoming who you are here to become:

1) Your reactions: You start to react differently to situations. Things that used to trigger you may not trigger you as much. The same situation may show up, but you react differently.

2) Opportunities begin to show up in your life. Things you may have always dreamed of open up for the first time. Desires and dreams start to unfold.

3) You start to change your community. You start to change the people you are hanging around. You start to up your vibration. Perhaps old relationships that don’t service you anymore change fall to the side. People around you may become more prosperous, positive and open.

So yes, here is to evolving! This is all part of the process of becoming who we are here to become.

In fact, I love this process so much that we are opening up a brand new Elegant Femme Integration Trois for your Timeless Evolution.

Click to pre-registar for Elegant Femme Trois (3)

This is your opportunity as a woman to let go, step into your evolution and become who you are meant to be.

If this is speaking to you, if you are ready to evolve as a woman, I want to see you at EFI 3 on April 26th, 27th and 28th in San Diego. Experience your evolution beside some other amazing women, in a gorgeous, intimate location — you will not believe what what we have in store!

Click to pre-register for Elegant Femme Trois (3)

(My intuition tells me tickets are going to sellout quickly this year I would love to see you in San Diego in April!)

We are going to move deep into your evolution as EFI. I want to ask you: How are you evolving? What has shown up in your life to let you know you are evolving as a woman?

I can’t wait to hear from you in the comments below!

FemmeType Insight: This is for your Indie; She is ready to step into your evolution and let go of achieving.

Your New Yorker loves being allowed to evolve rather than achieve.

Your Frenchie is in sync and ready to become who you are here to become.

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Elegant Femme Transcription: 3 Keys to Your Evolution

Happy birthday to me. Hi this is Tara with Elegant Femme, and yes it’s true I’m 37 this week, and I want to talk to you about something really important, and, in fact, it’s something; there is something going on inside of me that I haven’t evolve into yet, because I’m practically feeling a little sorry for myself today; but you know what this is good because I’m evolving,

This is what I want to talk to you about; there is a huge difference for us when it comes to evolving versus achieving. So I speak to a lot of women and one of the things I hear so often is gosh Tara I’m not where I want to be yet, and you know I have done so much personal growth, and I should really be so much further along from where I am, and you know me too; I felt it before too. You know gosh why am I not over there; or she is over there, and why am I not over there with her right?

I tell you what; I’ve learned something over the past 37 years, and I’ve had it. I’m done. I’m totally done with it. I’m absolutely done with achieving, and I really want to invite you to step into this with me because it is not about achieving. It is absolutely about evolving; it’s about evolving. When we shift our focus as women from achieving that next thing, and that next place and that next accolade, and that next whatever, and we start moving towards evolving; how am I evolving as a woman; really what does that mean, and what does that look like. We get really clear that we are constantly moving up, and we stop fearing moving back or getting left behind, and so I want to talk to you about 3 ways to know if you’re evolving, and this is so important because when we get in those moments of feeling sorry for ourselves; when we get into those of feeling a little depressed or a little competitive, or a little bit how come I’m over here and not over there; you know; you know what I mean.

It’s really important to remember what you’re focusing on. Are you focusing on the achieving or are you allowing yourself to really recognize as a woman that you’re evolving; you’re evolving. So the 3 ways that you can know when you’re evolving let me tell you how they show up.

So the first way is if you start to recognize that you’re reacting differently to situations. For an example, say that your husband typically leaves dishes in the sink, and for years and years it’s totally pissed you off. I don’t know anything about this, by the way, and you start evolving; you start growing; you start stepping into new places as a woman, and all of a sudden the dishes in the sink don’t trigger you like they used to. That’s an example right; you’re evolving. So the same situation might show up in your life, but you react differently. That’s one way to know you’re evolving.

What’s another way to know you’re evolving? Opportunities that you’ve only dreamed about start showing up in your life. You’re evolving; you’re starting to move into the woman that can step into those experiences. So if, you’ve had desires; if you’ve had opportunities; if you’ve had things that you’ve been dreaming about, and feeling into for some time and they start showing up; you’re evolving.

A third way to know whether you’re evolving is that you start to change your community; you start to change your structure of influence; you start to change who it is you’re hanging around; you start to, in fact, up your vibration. So you’ll notice that old relationships that didn’t serve you start to slip away. You’ll notice that the people that you choose to surround yourself with are more in line with where it is you’re going. You’ll look around, and you’re wow I’ve really changed my scenery. People around you typically become more prosperous; more positive; more open; more into entrepreneurship; more into I would say making an impact in the world.

Those are the ways; 3 ways that I know you can tell whether you’re evolving as a woman. We’re going to get into this so much deeper as we go forward because it really is something that shifts the dynamic for us as we continue to evolve.

So I want to share that with you today. I want you to really feel into it, and, in fact, I’d love to ask you what are some things that have shown up in your life recently that let you know that you are indeed evolving; love to hear from you.

I’m going to go enjoy the rest of my birthday week, and I want you to leave that comment below. Oh yes, I have to tell you something else. Around this whole evolving theme; why is this so important to me right now, and why am I going into this? We are opening up a brand new Elegant Femme Trois for your timeless evolution because this is big. This is really big, and I want to be sharing with you the three stages of your evolution that are so important.

So we just opened up Elegant Femme Trois which is our live event. It’s going to be held in San Diego, April 26 to 28, and I want you to see that link below because we are in per-registration right now. The tickets are only $397. They are going to be going up, up, up; upwards of thousand dollars. So this is your opportunity to join us. It’s going to be very, very intimate. The tickets are going to sell out. My intuition is telling me they are going to go; they are going to go fast. So if, this is speaking to you and you know you’ ready to evolve as a woman, I want you to see me, and I want to see you at EFI Trois.

So click that link below and check it out. Is there anything else I’m forgetting? Alright; I’ll see you at the EFI Trois and let me know how it is that you know that you’ve been evolving.

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