Today is a special episode, as we step into a new level inside of Elegant Femme in 2024. I spent a lot of time at the end of last year in deep reflection and it was something that felt much different than anything that I have ever experienced. In this episode, I reveal where so many people go wrong with planning, in the traditional sense, and what to do instead. 

In this potent episode, you’ll hear:

• The knowing that I had recently that things not only were going to change for me, but had changed for me [3:44]
  
• Why the idea of planning feels limited to me, and what planning looks and feels like inside of our formula here at Elegant Femme [6:43]
  
• The difference between planning energy and creation energy, and what to do instead of planning for this new year that has just begun [11:00]
  
• What happens if you haven’t anchored and honored yourself inside of creation energy and the key elements that creation energy requires [14:35] 
  
• Exciting details about our upcoming Sensual Creation Day and what you can expect by attending [18:02]

We’ll be going deeper on these topics on January 13th, 2024, as we’re holding our famous Sensual Creation Day that was created over a decade ago because of my own love/hate relationship with planning. The element that was missing for me was creation, so you will have my support in this beautiful process of co-creating your year in a way that brings you more abundance, beauty, peace, relaxation and allowing in your life – no matter. You can get all the details now and join the waitlist at www.elegantfemme.com/scd!

As always, we would love to hear from you. What have your experiences with planning been, and what desires are you looking to create and bring into your Beautiful Soul-Led Life in 2024? You can send me a DM on Instagram, or tag me @taraannmarino and don’t forget to follow our new account @elegantfemme.ef. 

Do you have a question that you would like answered on an upcoming episode of the podcast too? You can email us, info@elegantfemme.com, and if it’s a question that I think can bring value to the community and listeners, I could answer it on a future episode of this podcast! 

Also, If you haven’t already, take our Femme Design Assessment and see which of your FemmeTypes are underutilized. 

Thanks for listening, and I look forward to having you join us for Sensual Creation Day on January 13th!  

Quotes: 

“It’s hard for me to express a new word [for] the way I was feeling at the end of 2023. There was a knowing inside of me that things not only were going to change for me, but that they already had changed for me.” [3:44] 

“A lot of us have been taught to plan, [and] a lot of us have planned the majority of our lives. It’s not that planning is bad, and it’s not that planning doesn’t work. I would say that planning is just, in my experience, limited.” [6:44] 

“When you move into a conversation of planning it’s all about the future. We don’t plan what we’re doing in the moment, we’re doing it in the moment. We’re in the moment with the thing, but if we’re in the moment with the thing and we’re planning for the next moment, or the next week or the next year, we’re a mess inside.” [9:53] 

“Stop planning and start creating. Creation happens in the present; creation doesn’t happen when you’re planning.” [12:13] 

“If we haven’t anchored and honored ourself inside of creation energy and we go straight into planning energy, most times that planning energy comes from the illusion that we’re making something happen.” [14:35]

Links & Resources: 

Learn More About Sensual Creation Day, Happening January 13th, 2024

The Tara Paris Website is Coming Soon (Get on the Exclusive Waitlist to be Notified)!

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