I get so annoyed when she does this

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Bonjour...I'm Tara

Thanks for being here with me. I’m really enjoying the act of writing to you every day.

It feels so good to do a positive action every day.

In transparency, I’ve often judged myself for not being consistent with good habits in the past.

And this is when I would typically get most annoyed with Tara.

She has a slate of positive, consistent habits she does every day.

And when I’m not doing what I know I should, I take the easy road out… I deflect the frustration I hold towards myself and I get annoyed with Tara.

(I told you I would share some inner demons from time to time. I’m not proud of this, but it’s real).

When this happens, I don’t necessarily say anything to her.

I just get annoyed that she’s doing good things for herself, and I’m not.

And now, in this moment, as I’m doing this positive daily action (writing you this email), I think to myself…

Silly human (me).

Don’t project feelings of dissatisfaction with yourself on others around you.

Instead, use that energy to do something that feels good!

Tara’s daily habit that is the most beneficial, IMO, is her Femme Flow List process.

It’s her daily (morning/evening) routine with her FemmeTypes that connects her to her true self.

It helps her get clear on and realize her daily purpose.

It gets her moving in the right direction and feeling good.

She identifies what’s truly important each day, allowing her to experience momentum and progress on what will support her soul.

Since I’m in charge now, I’m offering a 1-day sale on the Femme Flow List program for $49. Normally $77.

In less than 10 mins a day, you can get aligned and on purpose each day.

The 9-module program includes a 14-day challenge to get you started on the right foot.

If I can write you an email daily, you can do this.

I’m a crazy slow writer. It takes me hours every day to craft my message. I’m still working on this “Fire” thing (see Ready, Fire, Aim email for the reference).

The Femme Flow List is life changing and it takes less than 10 minutes a day.

Alright, that’s today’s email. I’m so grateful you’re here. Thanks for sharing space and time with me.

Dave “an email a day” Marino

Ps. Here are the takeaways from today’s email.

  1. Do some positive daily habits. It will make you feel good.
  2. Don’t project dissatisfaction with yourself toward others when they show up how you want to show up.
  3. Check out the Femme Flow List (which is on sale for $49) and start a positive, daily habit today.

ALSO: Whenever you’re ready… here are more ways Elegant Femme can support you.

  1. Tara’s next live program – Moi A Love Story
    A brand new program starting on April 4th. If you struggle prioritizing you, then Moi can help you shift out of that pattern. You can learn about it here
  2. The Beautiful Soul Led Podcast
    Listen in as Tara shares her insights with you weekly. Available on all podcast platforms. New episodes will commence in April. You can catch up on episodes here
  3. Women Living Fully Facebook group
    Elegant Femme’s free group filled with like minded women who are committed to their growth and evolution. Plenty of free programs and resources in the “guides section. You can join here
  4. Tara Paris
    Beautifully crafted clothing made in Italy and designed by Tara. You can check out the collection here

Dave Marino


Dave Marino fell in love with a girl when he was 24. After a shotgun wedding, he grew and evolved... He was stretched along the way by the original Elegant Femme, Tara Marino. Through a stroke of unforeseeable circumstances, he began writing newsletters and now a blog for Elegant Femme which covers his thoughts, struggles, & life lessons learned. Follow him on Instagram @thedavemarino. One day he may decide to post on there. 

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