Ready, Fire, Aim!

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So Tara does this thing that’s very foreign to me. You know how the saying goes… Ready, Aim, Fire!

Well, somehow along her path, Tara figured out that Ready, FIRE, Aim was better for her.

What do I mean?

When she has an idea. Or a desire. Or when her Indie gives her a nudge…

She goes for it, and she goes quickly.

She doesn’t overthink things. And it works really well for her.

I’m naturally wired differently.

Left unchecked, I go this route.

Aim. Aim. Ready. Aim. Aim. Aim. Ready? Aim. Fire!

Which option do you think is better?

I have argued that my way is better because I really think things through.

I get clear on EVERYTHING before acting. At least that’s what I tell myself.

But deep down, I know the truth.

The reason I’m more comfortable with the long, arduous Aim aim aim aim method is because I don’t have trust that things will work out either way.

And my default gets me stuck. Paralyzed.

Waiting for some perfect moment to arrive before I act.

And when we do that… When we wait too long, the juice is often gone. The magic goes elsewhere.

I love it when Tara says, “Spirit meets us at the point of our aligned action.”

I have to remind myself of this often.


Note that there is an essential word in her statement… “Aligned.”

That’s something Tara always takes her time on. She gets clear on her intention. She asks her Indie for guidance… all the time.

She doesn’t just jump without looking. But she sure as hell doesn’t sit around and wait for forever to make decisions.

She takes aligned actions frequently.

The truth is when I follow Tara’s Ready, Fire, Aim strategy I make more movement… quicker.

I get to adjust along the way. And it gets me moving in the direction I want to go in.

Today, I realized I was Aim, Aim, Aiming my time away on the new Moi video. It’s time to fire.

I will have it up and ready to share within a week. (These things take me a crazy amount of hours to finish)

In the meantime, if you’re interested in learning more, here’s a video of Tara explaining her new program Moi.

And Moi comes with an incredible Gift with Purchase.

If you join, you’ll get her Feminine Edge program which sells for $3333… you’ll get it as a gift with your purchase.

I’m looking forward to our time together tomorrow.

Dave Marino


Dave Marino fell in love with a girl when he was 24. After a shotgun wedding, he grew and evolved... He was stretched along the way by the original Elegant Femme, Tara Marino. Through a stroke of unforeseeable circumstances, he began writing newsletters and now a blog for Elegant Femme which covers his thoughts, struggles, & life lessons learned. Follow him on Instagram @thedavemarino. One day he may decide to post on there. 

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