Episode 51: How to Tap Into Your Inherent Value

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Today, I want to talk about a subject that can be considered a bit “touchy”, which is how we feel we are valued in the world and what we feel makes us valuable. 

I’m going through this right now, and it’s scary. It has me feeling into some deeper conversations inside of myself of the places where I’ve attached value to certain things, and the places where I’ve limited the truth of my value. 

This is such an important episode because once you’re able to reside inside your inherent value, you’ll find yourself in a special place where you can live the Beautiful Soul-Led Life that you’ve been called to experience.

In this potent episode you’ll hear:

  • A look at what really makes us valuable and how this changes as we age [3:07]
  • My own journey of discovering my inherent value and the ways that the absence of it can influence our lives in significant ways [7:31]
  • How my role as a mom has shifted and the growth opportunities that this has presented [9:13]
  • What’s behind the attachment we feel to how much we do and what you can do to remember that our value is attached to who we truly are [11:41]
  • The magic that happens when we reside inside our inherent value [15:39]
  • Specific questions to ask yourself in regard to determining if you are living inside your inherent value right now [19:11]

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“When I consider my own personal experiences of then moving into college and my first marriage, it was this aspect of me that was really based in a lot of scarcity.” [6:17]

“My role as a mom has shifted and has changed, and one of the growth opportunities inside of that has been to see, once again, where I may have overly attached to ‘this makes me valuable and they need me.’” [9:13] 

“I do think that there’s a tendency or a temptation I will say, to then look at even more the attachment to how much we do.” [11:41] 

“When we trust ourselves to live into the experiences that are in alignment with our priorities, we are residing in that inherent value. When we are residing inside our inherent value, we trust ourselves to experience the life that we’re really called to experience.” [15:39] 

“When you feel into that opportunity, take a look at where you may be overly attached to your value being what you do, how much money you make, and how much you do for other people. It’s so easy for us to fall into that, myself included.” [19:11] 

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