Episode 82: Embracing the Unpredictable & Insights on Life at 48

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I’m recording this episode from Paris, where I just celebrated my 48th birthday, andI I’m feeling a mixture of emotions. Upon reflection, I want to share a recent event that occurred and has inspired me to share a lesson on how to react and respond when life doesn’t go exactly the way that we want it to. 

In this potent episode, you’ll hear: 

  • An exercise you can do to feel into your Beautiful Soul-Led Life fully [3:17]
  • A look at our recent trip to Paris and a lesson on how to respond when we don’t get what we want [5:36]
  • The alternative to how the ego and mind want you to react to not getting what you want [9:02]
  • A way you can begin to harness the power of your FemmeTypes to help you stay open in these situations [13:15]
  • An action you can this week to keep yourself more open when life presents you something that you don’t like [18:02]

As you listen to this episode, I encourage you to consider the nuances inside of this conversation and embrace life’s unpredictable nature as you navigate your own journey. Stay open to all experiences and lean on your FemmeTypes to support you as you consider the true power of sensuality and openness in living a fulfilling, Beautiful Soul-Led Life. 

Can you think of a time when life didn’t go the way that you wanted it to, and if so, is there something I share here today that could have helped you during that experience? Let us know by sending us a DM on Instagram, @taraannmarino or at our new account, @elegantfemme.ef. 

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Do you have a question that you would like answered on an upcoming episode of the podcast too? You can email us, info@elegantfemme.com, and if it’s a question that I think can bring value to the community and listeners, I could answer it on a future episode of this podcast! 

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“There is such an opportunity to allow life to move towards us. So feel into that and see where you may be operating on that scale currently in your life.” [4:55] 

“We can really go into resistance and actually push against life, and when we do that, we close our sense of receiving. We disconnect from life, we go into that space of aloneness actually and we separate ourselves from the flow of life.” [8:37]

“[Take] that opportunity to stay open to your power, that opportunity to stay open to choice, that opportunity to be aware of if you are activating the fullness of your power inside, not trying outside first.” [9:52] 

“No matter how you frame it inside, typically the feeling is going to be a contraction. It’s going to be a tightening, it’s going to be a closing, and our intention is instead of going into that default, stay open and even consider opening more inside of that space.” [12:55] 

“When life is presenting something that you don’t like…breathe into your heart and consciously connect with your New Yorker, allowing your heart to stay open.” [16:22]

Links & Resources:

Episode 02. The truth of how I ‘birthed’ Elegant Femme

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