Episode 30: The TRUE Art of Receiving Pleasure

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I am just returning from a gorgeous trip to Europe, where I was for almost a whole month, and I was so inspired by the growth I experienced from this time that I wanted to bring this energy to the podcast today. In this episode, I am speaking about receiving, and specifically, receiving pleasure in a beautiful and potent way.

There are things in your life that increase your capacity to receive pleasure, and I want you to pour your attention, love, and vibrational frequency into them and ask for more in this moment, because that is when things change!

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In this episode you’ll hear:

  • The role that both the Indie and Frenchie FemmeTypes play in receiving and enjoying pleasure [3:52]
  • How embrace more receiving in your life and break free from the pattern of believing that when something good happens something bad will follow [6:09] 
  • What happens to our capacity to receive when we are not feeling safe [6:56] 
  • A story that demonstrates how important being in a state of receiving really is [8:44] 
  • The experiences and lessons that I received during my recent trip to Italy [12:21] 
  • What to realize about the distinction between the frequencies of need and desire [21:38] 
  • The true level of enlightenment that happened during my Paris experience [28:09]


  • #1: “Typically when we hear the word ‘pleasure’ as women, we’re taught that it’s physical pleasure. Certainly, physical pleasure is a way with which we experience our Beautiful Soul-Led Life, it’s a way with which we experience sensuality, and it’s a way with which we can expand our capacity to receive, but it’s not the only way.” [4:48]
  • #2: “We cannot receive if we’re not feeling safe, so when we go into protection [mode], we go into protection because we’re not feeling safe. In that moment, we immediately cut off our capacity to receive.” [6:56]
  • #3: “As soon as we move into the energy of how, control, and managing, we pull ourselves out of the feminine frequency and we pull ourselves out of our sense of receiving.” [8:32]
  • #4: “When you start to feel into your capacity to receive more, you realize it doesn’t come from need, it comes from desire. Need and desire are completely different frequencies.” [21:38]
  • #5: “We can have these experiences at any point in time, if we allow them. One of the reasons I love traveling and one of the reasons I love creating iconic, extraordinary experiences for my clients, myself, and my family, is [that] we see the world differently.” [32:54]

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